16/07/2018 Multilingual

Recently things around me really make me think and wonder about relationships. My family, my partner, friends etc. Some things are working well and the other ones need some improvement.

I heard that there are 3 things that most of us worry and if you miss one of them then you are not completely happy.

Health, Money and Relationship.

It may sound a bit too exaggerate but after the basic needs has been met, I feel most of the issues (at least mine) are caused by relationship. 

Why am I so angry? Why am I so worried about my future? Why am I feel anxious? 

This book really explain that we are tying to pick and work on the specific problem but we are missing the really deep root cause. The question like "Why is she acting like that? " might not be an issue with her action yet she is missing something fundamental from the basic needs.

I feel that understanding your partner's first language (can be even 2nd) might be really able to enhance your relationship. I guess it is even possible to fix any marriage issues and the concept of feminism.

Thank you for spending your time to read this.